S2E21 - Designing Desire

In this episode, Jess (The Playful Domme), Lisa (The Poly Wife), and Ella (The Virgin) discuss the Netflix show "How to Build a Sex Room," exploring how intimate spaces can be customized to fit personal desires and comfort levels. Ella, new to many BDSM concepts, shares her fascination with the show, which has inspired her to think about creating her own sensual space. Jess and Lisa share their thoughts on incorporating playrooms, discussing practical elements such as sensory textures, Tantra chairs, and pervertibles (everyday items used creatively for play). They reflect on the broader message of normalizing sensual exploration, with Jess emphasizing the importance of maintaining boundaries and connection.

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🔥SHOW NOTES🔥

[00:00:00] – Welcome & Introduction: Jess, Lisa, and Ella kick off the episode, setting the stage for a juicy conversation about creating intentional spaces for intimacy.

[00:02:00] – Netflix’s How to Build a Sex Room – First impressions and why the show is sparking important conversations about pleasure.

[00:05:00] – Transforming Your Space: How environment affects intimacy and practical ideas for enhancing the mood.

[00:08:00] – Bringing Kink to the Mainstream: The importance of representation in media and normalizing pleasure-focused discussions.

[00:15:00] – Lisa’s Thoughts on Polyamorous Representation: Reflections on a polycule featured in the show and how mainstream media portrays non-monogamy.

[00:25:00] – Overcoming Judgment & Embracing Pleasure: Discussing societal conditioning, relationship dynamics, and how women are often taught to prioritize their partner’s pleasure over their own.

[00:33:00] – Jess’s Bold Confession: A personal story about desire, boundaries, and standing firm in what she wants.

[00:38:00] – The Power of Asking for What You Want: How clear communication and confidence can transform intimate experiences.

[00:41:00] – Final Thoughts & Listener Challenge: The hosts encourage listeners to explore their own intimacy desires and make small, intentional changes in their spaces.

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🔥RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED🔥

• The Playful Podcast Website – Exclusive after-hours content, workshops, and events: www.theplayfulpodcast.com

• Netflix: How to Build a Sex Room – The show that inspired this episode’s conversation.

• The Wheel of Consent by Betty Martin – A deep dive into giving and receiving pleasure with awareness.

• Tantra Chair – Sensual furniture designed for deeper intimacy: www.tantrachair.com

• FetLife – A social networking site for people interested in kink, BDSM, and alternative relationships.

• Lisa’s Ti